Radical Approach - Forgiveness

• How are you responsible for the creation of conflict, interpersonal difficulties, resistance, tension and fear in your life?
• Can it also be true wholeness is the foundation of your being, nothing can oppose you? 

Maybe what arises as an adversary in your life comes from within you. It is important to see the relationship between thoughts of fear, lack and the inability to let go of the past and how they manifest themselves as experiences, appearing as if someone or something is against you.

• Maybe it is time for you to take 100% responsibility for your fear-based actions and the hurt they may have caused. 

True, the hurt that may be filling your heart is real. The pain is tangible. Your heart aches. 

• How do you release this difficulty?
• How can you let go of that experience?

Perhaps there is something under the surface that is creating this difficulty. An underlying condition that is preventing you from rejuvenating your life and letting go of the pain. You may want to accept that you cannot experience wholeness without letting go of the past through forgiveness. You cannot experience inner peace when you choose not to bring healing to the wounded parts of you. You need to let go of the past, and letting go involves forgiveness and moving on. Lack of forgiveness will hold you back and cause you to become spiritually stagnant.

True, the world is a place of opposites and competing tensions, these forces are not a power over you. The interpersonal difficulties are dynamic energies within which you can move authentically and appropriately, so long as you remember that you are spiritual being having a human experience. Thus, as a spiritual being these forces are not against you. However, when you find yourself in conflict, with interpersonal difficulties, resistance, tension and fear, you may want to examine how you choose to interpret your life experience. Perhaps this is your major contribution to the quality of your life. Your explanations, assumptions and judgments mediate how you relate to any given situation.

• With that said, are you holding on to old hurts, resentments and pain?

Without true forgiveness, you are being drained by holding on to and reliving past pain and anger. Remember, you'll attract whatever feelings you're experiencing. So, if you're stuck in revengeful thinking and angered in muck, you can't possibly be directing energy toward a positive future. You can't possibly manifest the unique vision of success that you are meant to live (A life of Happiness, Satisfaction and Significance). 
You can't possibly be free to be Fully Human.  Today, I choose to look at forgiveness from the point of view that, if I let go and move on, my mind is clear to concentrate on what I desire in life. With true, heart-felt forgiveness:

• I am free to be fully human. 
• I am free to choose what I want and need to do to take care myself. 
• I am committed to acting from the awareness that I am are 100% the source of my reality. 
• I attend to my daily spiritual food, such as peace of mind, love, compassion, grace, courage, wisdom, beauty, harmony, joy and laughter.
• I eliminate the dysfunctional thought patterns and free myself from constantly re-experiencing the emotional pain from the past.

The Price Is Eternal Vigilance and I would love to be able to say that forgiveness is easy to do. While it is simple, it definitely is not easy. The ego is a trickster and it wants to control you. When you are feeling good, the ego uses unforgiving memories to cause negative emotions such as anger, rage, resentment, or jealousy. The good news it can be done and there must be a conscious effort to free your mind. Your efforts to let go and free yourself from emotional pain reduce the ego’s control over you. Forgiveness is one of the qualities of the self-possessed and eliminates the energy patterns that keep guilt, shame and fear from remaining the dominating force in your entire being.

• The question remains, what would it take for you to enhance your capacity to forgive?

Forgiveness cannot happen unless I am willing to commit myself to make it happen. Forgiveness is a process that requires prayer, meditation, work and courage. It also begins by realizing that you are only human. Forgiving others by realizing that they are only humans. Learn the language of letting go and of forgiveness. Be serious about your life fulfillment and find the means to choose an attitude that will steer you to start the process of forgiving and eliminating the energy patterns that keep guilt, shame, interpersonal difficulties, resistance, tension and fear from remaining the dominating forces in your entire being. Your efforts to let go and free yourself from emotional pain reduce the ego’s control over you. Refusing to let go (forgiveness) is resistance to what you don’t want and attracting more of whatever you are resisting. 
To enhance your capacity to forgive, you would need to open your heart and be aware that by forgiving you aren't releasing the other person from their transgression as much as you're freeing yourself from their transgression. You don't have to condone their behavior, trust them, or even maintain a relationship with them. However, you DO have to free yourself from the anger, from the conflict, from the interpersonal difficulties, from the resistance, from the tension, from the pain and from the resentment once and for all. Remember, when learning to forgive, make sure to complete the cycle. That is, acknowledge your anger, your pain and your fear. But also own up to any part you've played in allowing it to happen or continue. Make sure to express whatever it was that you wanted from that person, and then see the whole event from the other person's point of view.
Forgiving, and making a place for love allow an expansion outward from the repetitive emotional spin of fear. It takes a lot of courage to forgive and to choose in the face of fear. Remind yourself that love is stronger than fear. 
To have successful, enduring and alive relationships you need to free yourself from constantly re-experiencing the emotional pain from the past, bring understanding and healing to the wounded parts of 'You' that often sabotage relationships. Letting go of the past involves seeking a new course where commitment and purposeful action can transport you out of your 'Self' and experience true, heart-felt forgiveness.
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